I found this article by Tania Kotsos.
Here's a delicious little tid bit to get you started;
Self love forms the foundation of your single, most important
relationship - that with yourself. The strength of all your other
relationships is exactly equal to the strength of that foundation. To
love yourself is not just a self-esteem boosting piece of advice. It is
the prerequisite to truly loving others. The Golden Rule tells us to
"love your neighbor as you love yourself". You are likely to have heard
it many times, expressed in different ways, thinking it is about loving
others. Look a little closer though, and you will find that at its very center is the command to love yourself.
Please stop over to Mind Your Reality to finish this insightful article. Also the comments section is very interesting too.